“The thyroid cancer is in room 4.” That’s how the staff indicated what room I was in during a checkup. I politely went out and said something along the lines of, “I understand HIPPA. However, I am NOT just someone with thyroid cancer. I’m so much more.” The staff apologized – but I’m sure as…
When someone we care about is diagnosed with cancer, it can be overwhelming to know how to help. We don’t know what to say because we don’t want to make things worse or say the wrong thing. We also want to act like things are “normal” – when they can be far from it. Often,…
Cancer is a journey that no one anticipates taking. It’s a path fraught with physical challenges, emotional upheavals, and a profound sense of isolation. Despite being surrounded by loved ones, friends, and healthcare professionals, we often feel very alone. There are several reasons for this, including our reluctance to seek support, the fear of being…
When we hear the word “cancer,” we usually think of the physical battle – surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation – but what about the hidden struggles that come with it? Beyond the visible scars and hair loss lies a world of challenges that often go unnoticed. Chronic pain, fatigue, and depression are just a few of the issues that plague those battling cancer, making every day a fight on multiple fronts. Unfortunately, many of these unseen issues can go on for many years after the initial diagnosis. Because these may be long-term issues, cancer Warriors get very good at hiding them from others. They don’t want to be a burden, so they suffer in silence – often to the detriment of their physical and mental health. They get very good at pasting on a fake smile and hiding their pain. So, what are some of these issues and how can you support someone who is dealing with them?
When we hear the word “cancer,” we usually think of the physical battle – surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation – but what about the hidden struggles that come with it? Beyond the visible scars and hair loss lies a world of challenges that often go unnoticed. Chronic pain, fatigue, and depression are just a few of the issues that plague those battling cancer, making every day a fight on multiple fronts. Unfortunately, many of these unseen issues can go on for many years after the initial diagnosis. Because these may be long-term issues, cancer Warriors get very good at hiding them from others. They don’t want to be a burden, so they suffer in silence – often to the detriment of their physical and mental health. They get very good at pasting on a fake smile and hiding their pain. So, what are some of these issues and how can you support someone who is dealing with them?
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